Okay, so being as honest as possible and putting down exactly what I wanted filled my emailbox with responses, 5 of whom I moved on to the next stage with, one who turned out to be a flip case and the final one wasn't ready to get into anything just yet. So let me roll the dice again and see what I come up with.

I want to find a man to play with (not just sexually, but that is important), someone who wants to find the one to be with forever but start slow with a walk and holding hands. He can spend time with me laughing and goofing off, or talking about the serious matters that may come up, or spend moments in silence just as easy. (Does that even exist out there?) He is confident, loving and waiting for me...

Me: a very sexy and active woman with an honest outlook and a very adventurous nature. I'm dark haired, dark eyed, somewhat mysterious and absolutely playful. I have a dry, somewhat twisted sense of humor. I love to do anything outside.

You: a very sexy and active man. Sexy to me is clean-cut, in shape, great eyes, beautiful smile and confident. You have a sese of adventure, love to travel, find new cultures fascinating (unless they're not...), educated, don't take life too seriously, work to live not live to work, can laugh at yourself or at the person beside you without being mean.

Maybe it's a tall order...maybe you're on the verge of breaking up with your previous girlfriend and aren't quite there yet...maybe,just maybe, you're reading this now and figure "what the heck"